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		By: Dave Bonta		</title>
		<link>https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17279</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dave Bonta]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 19:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17278&quot;&gt;Brenda&lt;/a&gt;.

Yeah, one way or another, I do want to do another multi-contributor podcast. Those are fun! The problem with this post specifically is it&#039;s too much about me. If I went with your second idea, I&#039;d probably frame it a bit more broadly: &quot;speaking with the enemy,&quot; let&#039;s say. Maybe something for Hiroshima Day...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17278">Brenda</a>.</p>
<p>Yeah, one way or another, I do want to do another multi-contributor podcast. Those are fun! The problem with this post specifically is it&#8217;s too much about me. If I went with your second idea, I&#8217;d probably frame it a bit more broadly: &#8220;speaking with the enemy,&#8221; let&#8217;s say. Maybe something for Hiroshima Day&#8230;</p>
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		By: Brenda		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 19:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17277&quot;&gt;Dave Bonta&lt;/a&gt;.

The other idea that I had was one that suggested itself because it seemed to grow naturally out of your post with its multiple, thoughtful comments.

How about a post, a call for a podcast, something not dissimilar to the Emily Dickinson one, only this time a response to the issues raised in your post?

For instance, you put out the post you have here. And those who would like to participate write a response that they can post in their blogs, but also they are to record it -with some sort of time limit obviously- and send it to you.

Like, toxicity, the result of careless uncaring behaviour, or the shadow, the dark unacknowledged underbelly of us all, or the critic who is capable of being a saboteur... your post raises all sorts of interesting considerations and thoughts and can become a diving board for a collection of responses that&#039;s not quite a conversation but can become one in comments to the podcast (or grows out of comments, like here).

So then you get all these 5 minute segments of responses, essays, poems, songs, whatever, and put them all together for a podcast. It&#039;d be dynamite.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17277">Dave Bonta</a>.</p>
<p>The other idea that I had was one that suggested itself because it seemed to grow naturally out of your post with its multiple, thoughtful comments.</p>
<p>How about a post, a call for a podcast, something not dissimilar to the Emily Dickinson one, only this time a response to the issues raised in your post?</p>
<p>For instance, you put out the post you have here. And those who would like to participate write a response that they can post in their blogs, but also they are to record it -with some sort of time limit obviously- and send it to you.</p>
<p>Like, toxicity, the result of careless uncaring behaviour, or the shadow, the dark unacknowledged underbelly of us all, or the critic who is capable of being a saboteur&#8230; your post raises all sorts of interesting considerations and thoughts and can become a diving board for a collection of responses that&#8217;s not quite a conversation but can become one in comments to the podcast (or grows out of comments, like here).</p>
<p>So then you get all these 5 minute segments of responses, essays, poems, songs, whatever, and put them all together for a podcast. It&#8217;d be dynamite.</p>
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		By: Dave Bonta		</title>
		<link>https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17277</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dave Bonta]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 19:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17275&quot;&gt;Brenda&lt;/a&gt;.

This is a very intriguing idea! I&#039;ll keep thinking about it. Thank you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17275">Brenda</a>.</p>
<p>This is a very intriguing idea! I&#8217;ll keep thinking about it. Thank you.</p>
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		By: Risa Denenberg		</title>
		<link>https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17276</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Risa Denenberg]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 19:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17275&quot;&gt;Brenda&lt;/a&gt;.

love the creativity!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17275">Brenda</a>.</p>
<p>love the creativity!</p>
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		By: Brenda		</title>
		<link>https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17275</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Brenda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 19:28:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A podplay!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A podplay!</p>
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		By: Brenda		</title>
		<link>https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17274</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Brenda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 19:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Seriously, this is one of the most bizarre posts I&#039;ve ever read, and the supportive comments are to be expected (and yes, they are here in abundance).

You are probably one of the most liked people I know of, on the Internet and off [so I&#039;ve heard]. So the fishing motive, ditch. No-one in their right mind is going to come forth and say, yeh, interview me, I&#039;m all those toxic things because I dislike. So why did you write this post? Triggered by some toxic sludge, yes, and then the mind roams to other toxicities. Perhaps?

Ok. Reading the post, and all the fabulous comments, some quite philosophical, I&#039;d really suggest not a traditional podcast (is the form old enough to have a tradition? she wonders) but a Samuel Beckett sort of play. Recently I saw &#039;Krapp&#039;s Last Tape.&#039; Beckett dealt in this world of self-questioning with incredible dexterity as a playwright. 

Sometimes you write poems in response to other poems that you are reviewing. How about a play called, &#039;Flirting with Toxicity.&#039; Woody Allen generally creates a theme and a story, but lets his actors create their own parts. How about letting some of your commenters write their own parts. You&#039;ve already outlined a story of finding who dislikes us, our work, and getting those nay-sayers to tell us their issues with our whatever in an interview/podcast so we can hear it and then like, scram out of there. (Or whatever it was you said above about not wanting to spend &lt;i&gt;too&lt;/i&gt; much time with these negative folk.) Take it from there.

It could be entertaining, though with depth, with stuff to make us think.

Or you could just become a politician.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously, this is one of the most bizarre posts I&#8217;ve ever read, and the supportive comments are to be expected (and yes, they are here in abundance).</p>
<p>You are probably one of the most liked people I know of, on the Internet and off [so I&#8217;ve heard]. So the fishing motive, ditch. No-one in their right mind is going to come forth and say, yeh, interview me, I&#8217;m all those toxic things because I dislike. So why did you write this post? Triggered by some toxic sludge, yes, and then the mind roams to other toxicities. Perhaps?</p>
<p>Ok. Reading the post, and all the fabulous comments, some quite philosophical, I&#8217;d really suggest not a traditional podcast (is the form old enough to have a tradition? she wonders) but a Samuel Beckett sort of play. Recently I saw &#8216;Krapp&#8217;s Last Tape.&#8217; Beckett dealt in this world of self-questioning with incredible dexterity as a playwright. </p>
<p>Sometimes you write poems in response to other poems that you are reviewing. How about a play called, &#8216;Flirting with Toxicity.&#8217; Woody Allen generally creates a theme and a story, but lets his actors create their own parts. How about letting some of your commenters write their own parts. You&#8217;ve already outlined a story of finding who dislikes us, our work, and getting those nay-sayers to tell us their issues with our whatever in an interview/podcast so we can hear it and then like, scram out of there. (Or whatever it was you said above about not wanting to spend <i>too</i> much time with these negative folk.) Take it from there.</p>
<p>It could be entertaining, though with depth, with stuff to make us think.</p>
<p>Or you could just become a politician.</p>
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		By: Dave Bonta		</title>
		<link>https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17273</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dave Bonta]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 01:28:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17270&quot;&gt;Paul Digby&lt;/a&gt;.

I admire your optimism, Paul.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17270">Paul Digby</a>.</p>
<p>I admire your optimism, Paul.</p>
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		By: Dave Bonta		</title>
		<link>https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17272</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dave Bonta]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 01:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17271&quot;&gt;Beth&lt;/a&gt;.

I&#039;m really just looking for interesting podcast subjects. That&#039;s where this idea was coming from.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17271">Beth</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m really just looking for interesting podcast subjects. That&#8217;s where this idea was coming from.</p>
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		By: Beth		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Beth]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 17:33:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m with Marly on this one, Dave. Your idea smacks too much, for me, of Opus Dei-like self-flagellation. If you were some sort of arrogant bastard in need of coming down a few notches, or a blind egotist who seldom engaged in self-analysis, I might be more in favor, but  you aren&#039;t. Going and looking &quot;to be shaken&quot; just seems self-destructive. Are you feeling bored? Or wanting a push out of old patterns, wanting to go beyond the arguably &quot;conventional&quot; photos of beauty? I guess I&#039;d suggest trying to find the deepest root of this impulse first, and then maybe those of us who love you can start doing some constructive shaking!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m with Marly on this one, Dave. Your idea smacks too much, for me, of Opus Dei-like self-flagellation. If you were some sort of arrogant bastard in need of coming down a few notches, or a blind egotist who seldom engaged in self-analysis, I might be more in favor, but  you aren&#8217;t. Going and looking &#8220;to be shaken&#8221; just seems self-destructive. Are you feeling bored? Or wanting a push out of old patterns, wanting to go beyond the arguably &#8220;conventional&#8221; photos of beauty? I guess I&#8217;d suggest trying to find the deepest root of this impulse first, and then maybe those of us who love you can start doing some constructive shaking!</p>
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		By: Paul Digby		</title>
		<link>https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17270</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Paul Digby]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 00:56:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17269&quot;&gt;Dave Bonta&lt;/a&gt;.

Hey!  True love is surprisingly common.
Hate is extraordinarily rare.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.vianegativa.us/2011/05/flirting-with-toxicity/#comment-17269">Dave Bonta</a>.</p>
<p>Hey!  True love is surprisingly common.<br />
Hate is extraordinarily rare.</p>
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