Dave, I think I get the underlying motivation here, a desire to see the broadest range of perspectives on who you are, so that you have as much information as possible to do your work with. It’s a noble aspiration, maybe. I probably have a much better chance of finding people who dislike me (hate is a bit strong) than you do, I’ve lost more than a few jobs as evidence. Not that you aren’t able to find naysayers, if you look hard enough, but, to me, you are doing your thing with a great deal of insight and humility, not to mention great talent. So I’m lending you my own personal aphorism for just this situation:
“Don’t hang out with people who don’t like you as you are. Many people do like you, but if you hang out with the ones who don’t, you will start to believe you are a horrible person, and then you will become that horrible person. ”
Good luck in your search. May you find only poets.